…that is what learning is. You suddenly understand something you’ve understood all your life, but in a new way.
What is your relationship to change? Do you run and hide from it? Do you bury your head in the sand until it goes away?
That’s exactly what I did for most of my life. I despised change, especially when it came to my schedule. I wanted it always to be the way it always had been. Well, that was never going to happen because that is one of the things we can be sure of….that change will happen.
I would resist is, I would get into a pissy mood about the change and I would have a bit of a tantrum about it. Real grown up of me, right?
Here’s what I’ve come to learn about change. It will happen and there is nothing we can do about it. You can bank on change happening. So there was only one thing I could do. And that was to embrace it.
What???? That’s right, I learned to embrace change. Because we are always changing. We are always having new experiences and new experiences bring about new ways of seeing things. And that is when changes happens.
We have literally been changing all of our lives. I am not the same as I was 10 year ago, 5 years ago or even last week. But if the changes we desire to make in ourselves are small enough we don’t even realized we have changed.
I can recall just a couple of years ago my husband wanted to move to a different house at the beach. I dug my heals in and say NO WAY! I had lived at that house for 31 years. I had made friends with my neighbors and did not want to leave. Even though it was so small we were tripping over each other.
Now two years later, we have purchased a larger beach house and I learned a very valuable lesson. What I had in the old house was brought into the new house and this experience of being here is more than I could have imagined. Made new friends that are amazing, we have more room in this house and are able to have everyone in the family, including friends stay with us. And that experience has been miraculous.
I have learned that if you are afraid of change, you are limiting yourself. If I had stayed in the smaller house, I would never have had the experience of having my brother come from Arizona to stay with us for the week, along with friends and more family. It was a truly wonderful time and I will forever be grateful for having everyone together.
If you are resistance to change, let me help you see it for what it really is. Change helps us grow. Change teaches us valuable lessons. Change changes us into what our Higher Power wants us to become.
There is a reason we change and if we are not changing then we are stagnant and that is no way to live.
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